<p>This thread caused me to remember that as an Oberlin college student from the City of Baltimore, back in the day, I thought the most fascinating people around were from the rural communities. There was a guy from Maine who drove 25 miles to the nearest grocery store for milk. Someone from central Massachusetts was unphased by the Ohio winter who walked around with an unbuttoned flannel shirt. I was so impressed! Today I’d call him stupid, but not at 19. THere was a young woman from Missoula, Montana who could describe the culture of a mining town. Other rural kids could describe their environments with a crispness that was extremely interesting. </p>
<p>I also decoded the suburban background. I called home and Mom asked, “the kids you are meeting…where are they all from?” I answered, "They all come from one town called ‘Twenty Minutes From New York’ "</p>
<p>When my older two applied, we were living in a small, depressed rural town in upstate New York. I believe that it helped them, although I don’t know.</p>
<p>Youngest applied from an upscale suburb. </p>
<p>All 3 got where they wanted to go. The eldest, denied ED, found true love at his second choice after the RD round ended (accepted to 4 places, waitlisted twice, and 2 rejections including that ED again). Middle kid got her ED. Youngest only applied RD and chose between 3 acceptances (out of 8) and is thrilled as a freshman today.</p>
<p>If I were to counsel a suburban student today, I’d say it is equally possible to have your suburban background become interesting, but only if you put some effort into it. How many suburban kids know the history of their community?
Most of them had an agricultural history, and a moment when economic change overtook it. That stuff is INTERESTING, why not learn it? Jane Jacobs wrote about “A Sense of Place.” Now that I live in a suburb (first time in my life), I find them more interesting than when I was in the city and the country and made sport with them. A suburb is still built upon a natural base, so there’s still geology to learn, plant materials to observe. </p>
<p>I prefer it whenever someone finds reason to be proud of their home community. I mean, even in our previous poor rural town, there was this cool bakery where you could do a drive-through order by yelling into the hole of a huge bagel painted on the side of the wall. </p>
<p>Take pride, no matter your address!</p>