Ok, I should probably update my college list. I finalized my list. As thumper1 says I realized many of those schools were way too expensive especially relative to my interest in them.
Top 4 (in no order):
-WPI
-University of Washington. NOTE not getting freshmen admission into CS would make this school significantly less attractive {applied}
-Carnegie Mellon {applied}
-Northwestern {applied}
Favorites:
-Northeastern
-Cornell {applied}
-Champlain (free app)
-Rensselaer {about to apply}
-University of Michigan Ann Arbor {about to apply}
Good:
-Georgia Tech {applied}
-Rochester Technical Insitute {applied}
-Rose-Hulman (free app)
-Ursinus College (free app)
Dislike:
-Knox (free app)
-Michigan Tech {almost done applying} (free app)
-Colorado School of Mines {applied} (free app)
-PLU (free app)
-Washington State University
Not sure how to feel yet:
-Virginia Tech {about to apply}
-Case Western (free app)
-Truman State (free app)
@thumper1 Sorry, can I just confirm. I just have to wait for the processed confirmation? At that point all the schools on the list got a copy of the FASFA whether or not they took any action with my FAFSA? I can then safely send it to the next batch?
Also PLU gave me a really great financial aid offer. It still isn’t where my parents say they can pay but its the best offer.
Frankly my parents have way unrealistic expectations of what they should be paying for college especially considering our income. Last I heard they plan on paying 20k a year. However I am fairly sure I can convince them to go higher (maybe even up to 30k if I am super lucky).
There also is the problem of my sister not being able to go to Baylor because of financial reasons. She still is frustrated about that. Granted she changed her major over the summer and probably wouldn’t have ended up happy over there anyways.
I don’t think or expect any of the schools on this list to be affordable. That is why I am applying to a lot of them. I am trying to
A. Roll the dice that I get good merit aid or other scholarships line up well.
B. Help my parents realize what is reasonable to pay for college (the more schools that have around the same COA the less it looks like any one of them is ridiculously expensive) (Yes, I agree this is probably a bad idea that won’t work out. But it something I can try).
Also, yes the CSS is VERY bad for me. It is super unlikely I will be able to afford them. However things like the Scholarship for Service (at some of the schools) may help even things out.
I am not expecting anything out of negotiations except to try. Champlain especially has seemed willing to at least discuss it. I am just trying everything I can despite how hopeless it may be.
I realize most likely I will end up at UW and I am mostly fine with that. I am just trying to give my chances of going somewhere else a better shot. My biggest issue with UW is its size. Academics/research/opportunity are all solid. I am just hoping to be a part of more of a community.
@BelknapPoint The problem is not convincing them that college is a good investment. It is difficult to convince them that going to a more costly college is a good investment. I completely agree that after your first job what college you went to doesn’t matter really, but I have always cared more about the journey than the destination. I have seen course catalogs for other schools and know for a fact that I would come out of there knowing a TON less, especially about topics that I am super interested in.
Also I think getting a batchelors from a better school helps with masters program admissions
@mom2collegekids Sorry for the earlier confusion. Yes I am in-state for Washington school.
Financial stats:
Starting point for amount parents are willing to pay for college for me (this should be haggled): 20k
Sisters out of pocket cost for attending school: 25k (note this is somehow going down by 5k next year)
FAFSA EFC: 35k (for just me I think)
CSS EFC: Above cost of tuition, room, board and everything at just about every school.
Income is a very complicated question.
2014 not reported on FAFSA: 350k
2015 on current FAFSA: 150k
I am still trying to wrap my head around why this is because I would say 2014 was a significantly more financially stressful year than 2015. In 2014 we got some sort of government reward for following some new policy with electronic records. But most of the money had to go back into the business and we got knocked into a higher tax bracket. Income is predicted to go down from 2015. We are never financially stable enough to know until December. The was medical insurance is going right now is significantly not in favor of pediatricians.