<p>B~ >>> As I said, my 11-year-old will still pick out something with “Princess” or “Cutie” on it, but it is NOT done with the deep psychological meaning that ADULTS tend to assign to this stuff. She might buy it because it is a color she likes or it has glitter on it or because she LIKES princesses…no crime there, IMHO. <<<</p>
<p>B… You’re right. What I was really referring to is the older girls (girls with “figures”) that are running around with (usually tiny, tight) shirts that say “hottie”, “Too Cute For You”, etc.</p>
<p>I think a lot of us think its cute to see little girls (with little bodies) wearing “little girl” clothes that might have cute sayings on them (Like “princess” or “daddy’s little girl”, etc). and the more glitter and glitz, the better !!! 
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<p>I think that you agree that that “hottie” and “sexy” (etc) can become “objectifying” on “developed” girls. </p>
<p>As to all the “revealing” clothes out there: Frankly, with all the “young flesh” that is exposed on school campuses these days, I’m surprised boys can pay attention to school at all. The girls at a nearby hs go to school with so little on their bodies. And, what they are wearing is skin tight.</p>