<p>Even if you don’t “plan” on having one, do you think that you will?</p>
<p>Yes…</p>
<p>…with your mom.</p>
<p>I’m in one right now. I’m not sure it’s what you might consider “serious”, but we’re living together off-campus (lots of students live off campus since it’s NYC)</p>
<p>I never planned on it, just figured it may or may not happen…and it did.</p>
<p>No…lol
10 charr</p>
<p>No, I want to have fun with friends and discovering my career plans and casual dating and just growing and expanding myself without being tied down.</p>
<p>I didn’t plan on it, but thought it might happen. And it did. We’ve been dating for a year and might live together next year. </p>
<p>I have the most fun with him and don’t consider myself to be missing out.</p>
<p>I’m in a serious relationship right now. We’ve been dating for about a year and a half and still growing strong. It’s stressful to have a significant other in school because our schedules are so different. We live together which is convenient because otherwise I don’t believe we’d ever have time to see each other.</p>
<p>I wouldn’t recommend it if you’re in college though simply because relationships generate some degree of drama. It’s just unneeded stress.</p>
<p>i’m in one, we’re moving in together. </p>
<p>i like how that’s the norm in this thread, haha. economics of convenience.</p>
<p>Do not “plan” on it.</p>
<p>I am in one now and am very happy, but I NEVER would have expected to be in a relationship before college started this year.</p>
<p>No, do not plan on it at all.</p>
<p>Yes, of course. But no one will like me enough, so meh</p>
<p>I think having a relationship in college is a great thing. I don’t know why there is so much opposition to the notion of relationships here. I’m about to graduate, and if I were single and looking, I wouldn’t even consider dating someone who has never been in a serious relationship. I don’t want to deal with scrubs. If you wait too long to have one then people are going to assume something is wrong with you. </p>
<p>Sure, there is going to be drama and you’re going to get stressed-out sometimes. On the other hand, getting laid regularly is more than worth it, and it takes stress away. If you have consistant, long-term fbs then that takes care of this. Once in a while hook-ups won’t, and you’ll be bad at sex. On top of that, the sex you do get will be sub-par because niether of you will know what the other person likes.</p>
<p>Tied down? Don’t have a relationship with someone who doesn’t like doing what you do. Start a relationship if it is with someone who you love hanging out with and would be great friends with even if you weren’t fooling around with them. Integrate them into your friends group or integrate into theirs. If your bf/gf is taking you away from your friends all the time and doesn’t like hanging out with them, then dump them. </p>
<p>I want to find the person who said that relationships are all about sacrifice, and punch that person in the face. This only applies to people who are old and afraid of not being able to have a family.</p>
<p>My advice is: Never look for a relationship, but if you meet someone who is amazing then you probably should consider it. Do what you want every second of your time in college, and if that time lines up with someone you’re into then think about a relationship.</p>
<p>No, I don’t. I plan on focusing on my studies in college and my career first.</p>
<p>Yes I do plan on it as I’m in a relationship now and plan to stay in it during college. Though it will be long distance =(</p>
<p>I’ve been with my boyfriend for three and a half years. It takes a lot of work especially since we don’t go to the same school. I’m graduating in December and we plan on moving in together then. We have a lot of fun together and I definitely don’t think I missed out on anything.</p>
<p>everything euler said = best way to approach relationships, hands down</p>
<p>i personally didn’t look for a relationship (at first i did a lot of casual dating, hookups, etc.). when i started casually dating my ex, we both went into it thinking we’d probably just hook up. then we fell in love and were together for a year and a half. things just kind of fall into your lap, i think.</p>
<p>If it happens, and I dont really expect it be serious or to happen to me, then I would just welcome it.</p>
<p>My boyfriend and I have been dating since the end of our junior year in high school, and are still together now (nearing the end of freshman year). It was a 200-mile long distance relationship this year.</p>
<p>Much easier than dating someone who goes to the same college as you. In my opinion.</p>
<p>my girlfriend was one of my best friends in high school and for a few months(5) before college we started hooking up… this was back home in sweden… then i moved to hawaii for school and she moved to washington DC to be an au pair… 
but we decided to try it… and we were in a long distance relationship for a year… now she lives here in hawaii with me and goes to my school 
only bad thing is that after this summer, i will be transferring and she wont, so we’ll break up… =/ but we’ll deal with that when the time comes…</p>
<p>like someone said earlier, dont go looking for a relationship, but if it happens, then sure go ahead 
and about the being tied down… i dont feel tied down in the sense that i cant have fun, because i love being with her, so just being with her and doing nothing is often more fun than partying with friends, because we click really well i do however SOMETIMES/OCCASIONALLY feel tied down when hot girls hit flirt with me and i know i cant do anything because i dont cheat it kinda sucks, and i doubt as many opportunities as im getting now will ever present themselves in the future, so im losing my peak time but thats ok in the end, shes worth it :)</p>