<p>DD, who just finished 8th grade, came home and announced she wants to major in Oboe Performance. She studies with an excellent private teacher and has received a 97 and 99 respectively on her last two NYSSMA level 6 solos in JR High. So I think the talent is there. Her teacher told her, being in Jr High, that the sight reading would be difficult on a level 6 for someone her age, but she aced it both times. 10/10. For those of you not familiar with it, level 6 is the highest level in NY state. She was accepted into and participated in every state honor group available to her at her grade level, Principal oboe in all although they messed up one of the programs!</p>
<p>Now, I know she’s got 4 years of HS school ahead of her, but it’s really been her dream for a long time. I will support her dream because my parents wanted a more “practical” major and I was miserable! At first she tried to be “practical” and say she was interested in music Ed., but she realizes at a relatively young age music is her passion, not teaching, and I give her credit for this. A teacher should want to teach! Performers should not use teaching as a “fall back” unless perhaps in giving out private lessons. (If possible,IMHO)</p>
<p>Here’s the thing. Hubby can retire early, the year DD graduates from HS. His dream has always been to move to a warmer state, and money will probably be a little tight for Private schools if we do that, unless she gets mucho merit aid. If we immediately moved upon graduation to say Florida or California, would DD be considered a resident after a GAP year for tuition purposes? I’ve heard the odds of even going to school after a GAP year decrease, but my husband did it. She could take private lessons and work part-time, maybe even volunteering to help out in the orchestra world, with promotions, ticket sales, whatever, to
get a “behind the scenes” look from that perspective.</p>
<p>And is there a state flagship in the south that is better then the others for music performance? We’re not really picky, we just want warm weather and nice people! Yes, we’re willing to move for daughter’s education-- an early retirement adventure! (No we
wouldn’t be living in the same city or down the block just to annoy her!) My work I can do anywhere. </p>
<p>One more thing, daughter achieved her success (so far) with less practice then I see the average musician on these boards putting forth. No, she’s not a prodigy but gets herself into so many activities, honors classes, sports, I know her schedule will have to give eventually. Should lack of self directed practice be raising a red flag at this point? Should I push practicing at her age, 14? And how do you fit in hours of practice if you’re taking honors
classes and expected to have lots of EC’s and Community Service? She was moved up to JV in two sports this year, but should I be worried about her injuring her fingers? Of course she could also fall down and break a finger walking down the hall! I’ll probably shock those on CC, but are AP courses in the accepted core curriculum a must for future music majors, even if regular courses offered are pretty rigorous but leave time for practice, sports (where she is learning a lot of self discipline, leadership and now has no fear about performing in front of an audience) and a social life?</p>