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<p>Last year, Harlem was an excellent neighborhood for my S and two unrelated female cotenants (one white, one Asian) sharing an apartment on 125th St. near Nicholas. All the things that make a neighborhood great were functioning for them. They lived steps away from an express subway stop that connected them everywhere in the city, including to Times Square in l0 minutes flat. There were people up and about all day and night, so it was never desolate. Shopping was plentiful, a combination of single business and national chains. An office complex several blocks away had Bill Clinton and staff as tenants. There were shows in walking distance at the Apollo Theater, walking history tours, jazz clubs, restaurants. They could afford the rent and live decently as 3 new college graduates. Inside they had a beautiful apartment with lots of woodwork; outside kinda plain Jane. Nobody would ever be afraid if they had the protection of a line of African women who sat outside their store on chairs in front of their doorway. </p>
<p>When the year’s lease was up for my S and his two female co-tenants, both of the women resituated themselves in nearby apartments, they enjoyed it that much. My S and his girlfriend looked all over the city to live closer to her job, until they concluded her place in Morningside Heights (2 blocks from Columbia U) was the best deal in town and a terrific neighborhood for a young working couple.
WHen I think of all the GUFF these 4 young people took because they lived in a predominantly black area, I’m sad because it truly puts a damper on one’s good will, but they tried not to let it get them down. </p>
<p>There was a discussion I recall from last year about “where exactly does Harlem begin?” Some would say 120th, some 125th, but finally I heard it said rather ironically, "Wherever the black neighborhood begins, that’s where Harlem begins. So obviously it’s a state of mind more than a precise location.
So much so that, last year when some movie director (wish I could recall who-- of national reputation… ) was making a movie about Harlem in the l970s when it was dangerous, he wanted to film scenes of life in poverty on
rough 115th Street of the l970s. But when he actually went to 115th St, it looked “too good” and he had to go some 15-20 blocks northward to find the poverty look he needed for the film. Even then it was hard to find places that had the authentic, totally distressed look in every corner of the scene…just too much renovation going on all over Harlem to tell the worst possible story.</p>
<p>So, something I used to be afraid of is now among my favorite areas of NYC.
Go figure. </p>
<p>I imagine that there are similar tales to be told all around U of Chicago, Case Western (downtown Cleveland), UPenn. But it helps to have some personal experience rather than just view an area with a quick lens. WHen people look for colleges, they don’t spend lots of time dissecting the neighborhood like this; they just rush through quickly on the way to the Admissions Department, so they can’t get a nuanced impression. I didn’t know any of this 2 years ago, and if you’d asked me then I’d probably figure that Columbia U has a problem of surrounding neighborhood. Today I know that statement is absolutely WRONG.</p>