<p>Collegeguys, I agree with some of what you say. But in many cases the parents also pay. The government only lends out $5500, to a freshman for college loans, with a few schools that have Perkins funds that can offer up another $5500 more in subsidized loans, but that is rare. If a parent gets turned down for a PLUS (Direct Parent Loan), the student can take out $4K or so more in Staffords. But any other loans are made to the parents, not the students. Yes, it’s called a cosign, but it’s really the parents they are snagging with those private loans. And the PLUS program is for parents only.</p>
<p>You may feel that college was a waste of time, but if you got a degree out of it, you may find some use for it later. A lot worse ways to have spent those years when you were a young adult. If you read through these forums, there is no way one can convince most kids that they should not go right away to college, and not even to restrict choices to affordable schools but they feel that they are entitled to go to sleep away colleges with all the costs associated with them. The financial aid system is not set up to pay for that, but parents and kids borrow, sometimes, over the top, to get what is perceived as a right and rite of passage.</p>
<p>I do assure you, however, that there are jobs out there that do require college degrees and often when they do not, if those applying and in that field tend to have degrees, it is a detriment not to have one. Having a degree is no guarantee of getting anything, however. My one son is talking like your are now. At some level, I do agree with some of what he says, but overall, I am glad he got his degree, whether it makes a difference in his life or not. </p>
<p>As for college loans, I agree fully that there are some heavy issues looming out there about them. Yes, there are a lot of people in trouble from taking out loans they cannot repay. If you look at the boards, even so there are those desperately looking for more to borrow. </p>
<p>I’m not sure how all of this venting about college loans and the government comes inot play with your mother claiming you as a dependent. And if she took out a loan and paid for your college one year, that seems to be in direct contradiction to the first paragraph of your post. She provided health care for you by DECLARING YOU A DEPENDENT at work, she gave you a car, she took out a PLUS loan to pay for some of your college expenses. She gave you her tax records and financial info so that you could get financial aid at college. Doesn’t sound like a totally uninvolved parent to me.</p>