<p>I did every bit of my son’s laundry before he went to college and made all his food too. He is surviving and thriving in college, doing his own laundry and eating as needed. My Mom did the same for me–she had full confidence that I could figure things out when I needed to.</p>
<p>And I also had maid service when I started college in 1969 in the good old USA. That didn’t spoil me either (JMO, of course).</p>