<p>I have no problem with people using cleaning services as part of keeping a busy life together. But when it is more the attitute, if there is a mess and a cleaning service is not around, do you have the initiative and ability to take care of the problem? I’ve lived with maids in Asia, I have cleaned houses for money in my younger days. My kids live like slobs at times, due to their preference, but know how to clean toilets, wash windows, do laundry and fix elegant meals when the situation requires. I see many in their generation that do not.</p>