<p>MarylandMom, </p>
<p>Your daughter sounds like she has a good list of schools and is being realistic and going into this process just right. Boy, she really got a sense of Brown all right. What she said of the kids seems very true. The peers at Brown, so far, have been one of the major highlights for my daughter. She says that though they are "brilliant", they "know how to have fun." She says that the kids in her dorm have become a "family". I think she has more friends and has been involved in more social activity in six weeks than in the entire past year at home. The kids are really friendly and diverse. She also finds the open curriculum a neat feature as it means you direct your own learning. She is a very motivated type student and I think is enjoying being in her "element" with others like that. She had done various independent studies in the past and she seems like a learner well suited to this school. She finds the classes VERY challenging. However, so far she is exceling in her grades and feedback from professors and it is a nice way to start her first semester with seeing that she can really do so well in such a learning setting, and that is even coming from our small public rural high school, not in the league of high schools many of her fellow classmates hail from. There is also so much to do at Brown and the surrounding area is a lot of fun for her. She loves having places to go in walking distance. She even hosted a party in her room last night. She is working very hard but also having a lot of fun. She is also on the varsity ski team and has made a close knit group of friends on that in addition. They have been training 7 times per week. She called excitedly today to say they finally hired a new coach (the coach quit this past summer) and her team was part of the interviewing process and I guess they hired the person she (and others on team) wanted. Up until now, they have been dryland training as a team without an adult leading them. I can't wait to see her for Parent Weekend. </p>
<p>I am glad to hear your D stayed for an overnight. I think when you are contemplating ED, or first choices, it is best to do an overnight. She has done that too. If your D ever needs a kid to talk to on campus, get in touch and I can likely connect her to my D who is the type who is more than happy to help in this kind of situation. She just hosted someone last week who she met briefly one time before and she made the offer and the girl took her up on it and my D took her all around to what she was interested in. She knew others had helped her on college visits in this way and it was now her turn to return that kind of favor for someone else. Which dorm did your D stay in? </p>
<p>Snapple....don't get nervous on the overnight. My kids have done many overnights and often with strangers (sometimes with friends) and believe me, hosts are always really great in showing you a nice time and kids DO open up and share about their school and stuff, because at one point, they were in YOUR shoes. Take this opportunity to mix with several kids and just ask questions and also observe the scene and the types of kids and so forth. Getting first hand info. like this from students beats any college catalogue! And the Brown kids seem like very very friendly people!</p>
<p>As far as what to do....yes, observing classes is good. You can write the professor ahead of time to get an OK. My D lined up appointments ahead of time with either department heads or professors in her field of interest so she could learn more about it. She also met with either coaches or even team captains in a club sport or activity (i.e., dance) in her interest areas to learn more about those opportunities. She usually ate in the cafeteria to see what that was like, also to just "people watch" and also she went up to random kids to ask how they liked the school or why they picked it, etc. She also visited several dorm rooms to get a sense of the living situations at each school. Follow up on any appointments with thank you notes. I don't know your EC interests but let's say they are orchestra or a capella or tennis club or whatever...you may be able to attend a practice to check it out. </p>
<p>Enjoy your visit! And good luck to both girls! </p>
<p>Susan</p>