So this may sound trite, but the first step is to actually be that sort of person. Be kind. Be enthusiastic.
The tricky thing about this advice is you can’t be doing this just to SEEM kind and enthusiastic to colleges, because that is actually fakery. You have to actually be kind and enthusiastic just because that is the way you want to be, not because it will help you get into a college.
And then it might well find its way into your application. Maybe it will be in your recommendations. Maybe it will be reflected in your activity descriptions, or an essay or two.
Or maybe not! There are no guarantees, this may do nothing at all to help.
But again, if you are actually a kind and enthusiastic person, then being that way is its own reward. And then if some colleges also like that version of you, that is a bonus, but not the main purpose.
No, really in fact no. I have seen many AOs address this, and they all have said some version of that the Awards section just is not a big section for them, that in fact they know in many cases it won’t play any role in various successful applications. And then sometimes it does contribute, but that is just for those kids, other kids are fine with little or nothing.
If it helps, AOs will periodically try to explain this is not at all like a test, where you start with 100 points and they deduct for deficiencies.
This is more like, say, casting a big movie, where maybe everyone has to have some baseline ability to act, but then they are looking for people who will really stand out in different roles.
So it really isn’t about what you don’t have (aside from whatever they expect in terms of academic qualifications). It is about standing out to them in some way they find compelling enough to want to “cast” you in one of the many roles they have available. And then the next person they “cast” with an offer of admissions may be very different, and on it goes.