I’d pick #2, but it’s something we still do. We have a great vacation place and the kids will always come there to visit for at least a week in the summer.
My D performed sports at a very high level (she was in national competitions in her sport). I never would want to go back to that. I often couldn’t watch because I was so nervous for her. She now works for the governing body of her sport and I went to a national competition recently that was in New England. It was so nice to watch the competition and feel relaxed.