<p>I got a likely letter for Cornell Engineering, and I’m super excited about it, although I recognize that its very expensive and my family might not be able to afford it due to our income bracket etc etc
the other night at dinner I asked my parents if they thought it was an option and my dad just belittled the school and myself and asserted that it would be stupid for me to go to Cornell instead of the University of Maryland because UMD would cost less than $10,000 a year and is right in a central area while Cornell is much more expensive and in “a more rural location, akin to the woods” (replaced his profanities/rudeness). </p>
<p>He actually offended a lot of other places… saying for instance that I should apply to – since I was obviously too stupid to go to UMD.</p>
<p>I’m really bitter and I’m not trying to offend anyone, please don’t get me wrong I think Cornell Engineering is really prestigious, I was just looking for some support/evidence for my case. He’s really controlling so I don’t want to argue but I’d love to present some actual facts and figures to him to show him how wrong he is. Like, % of internships for undergrads or something…</p>
<p>He is such a jerk, I want to repeat. He raves about Cornell and then I basically get in and he berates it. He did have plenty of nice things to say about Berkeley and its location… as I have not been accepted/sent a likely letter. If I did he’d have some obscenities to shout about it too, most likely.</p>
<p>I’m willing to take on loans and stuff. Frankly Ive got more saved than they do in my measly “college fund” which is currently dwindling, but I don’t want to completely break off ties with my dad, at least yet. just feeling glum. no congratulations or anything on the likely…</p>
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