<p>Agree with geek_mom re accommodations. Try to help him understand that getting the right accommodation is like getting glasses if you have poor eye sight. You would not expect someone to drive the car if they needed glasses. Do not expect them to perform at the same level as others if they need accommodations. Accommodations are not “coddling”. With them they can learn how to deal with the world on their own terms. It’s a process.</p>