Wanted to update anyone that was still interested. We are still no contact with SIL and her family. So we are going on 20 months now. We spent last Xmas in Cabo and it was wonderful. The other SIL did ask last week if we would come to FIL bday dinner this year. DW is still a no go if SIL and family will be there. That did get DW worked up some. I am flabbergasted that they would ask knowing the situation has not been resolved.
We have been empty nesters this past school year and it has been so relaxing. Well, except we have to take care of Vlad the tortoise. He wasn’t smart enough to make it to college.