<p>My husband worked full time and went to school full time and finished in three years. It can be done. And I really believe the remark above about both parents being on board. My husband has always been much more lenient than I and has not backed me when I wanted to impose chores and stricter rules. And because of schedules, he was able to spend much more time with the children. I think that’s part of what I meant about having control, although perhaps it was unfair of me to infer that the mother did not have control. If she and Dad agreed on parenting styles, and she chose this life, she did have control.</p>