<p>The sad truth is even if Black men met eligible Black women at the country club they would go out of their way to avoid having to speak with them. Brothers do not acknowledge Black women while mingling with white society. </p>
<p>Real Black MEN do not suffer from self-esteem issues that are only assuaged when they feel they are the only blacks in a group of whites. Very sad-sacks. </p>
<p>Black women do not have this problem. Black women have the problem of being snubbed on approach by Black men unsure of their own standings. They don’t want to be identified as Black simply by acknowledging other Blacks. (smh)</p>