We have been debating for years about the balance. I want him to launch! He does have a lot of academic work for him, he is inefficient with his time so it takes a long time to get his things done. I don’t remind him about homework but he always does it last minute. He struggles to break down tasks into the smaller pieces. He always barely makes it on time to everything. My hubby and I fight a lot about it. He expects my son to be more of an adult which is what he was at that age. When my hubby comes home to see my son gaming and if his chores aren’t done it makes him mad. I used to make him have his chores done which takes 10-15 minutes a day but then it felt like I was nagging him all the time. He would argue I just got home, I want a snack and downtime, but then it turned into the I need 5 more minutes that turns into more! Annoying!
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