<p>“Good fences make good neighbors”</p>
<p>Truer words were never said, especially if you have neighbors like mine. When we bought this house nine years ago, we decided to have a 6’ privacy fence installed and began the process immediately by getting quotes and submitting our plans to the HOA architectural committee for approval. We were told the approval process usually takes 30 days. During this time, I received a call from a neighbor who lives on the next street over (her back yard meets the side of my back yard). She called to say they were having a fence installed and had gone about the process wrong in that they had not submitted plans to, nor received approval from, the architectural committee. She asked if I was okay with them installing a fence. I told her that was, of course, fine with me and then I said we were in the midst of the approval process ourselves and suggested we split the cost of the common fence. She then dropped the bombshell … the fence company was at her house installing the fence at that very minute … a three foot picket fence. I told her we had planned to install a privacy fence. I don’t recall her response, if she had one at all, and I had three sick students in my school clinic at the time so I really couldn’t pursue it further at that time.</p>
<p>Fast forward two hours. I got home from work and saw from my kitchen window that their fence was nearly complete in the installation process. I then noticed what appeared to be a space for a gate in their back fence area. Because a gate in that location would lead no place other than our back yard, I immediately called her. I told her they appeared to be plugging right along and then I asked if the space in the back fence was, indeed, for a gate. She confirmed that it was and said they thought it would be a good idea in case a ball or other toys came over the fence. They have three very active boys. She then asked if that was okay with me. I told her no, it was not okay. I commented that we didn’t want just anyone having access to our back yard. I reminded her that we had a new puppy and, though she is a house dog, she does go outside occasionally to play and go potty. We didn’t want to take a chance on a gate being left open nor did we want to chance kids coming on to our property and possibly being bitten since dogs can be protective. She said she would call her husband at work and ask him about it. WTH? It didn’t matter what he said. Had they installed the gate (fortunately, they didn’t), I would have planted the thorniest rose bush I could find and block that entrance. Our correct approach (submitting and waiting for approval) caused us to lose out on privacy. DH and I enjoy sitting on our nice new deck with an adult beverage and listening to music but, instead, we are often driven indoors because, besides being excessively loud, the kids are frequently asking us to retrieve balls and other toys that easily come over a three foot fence. Additionally, these kids attend my school and constantly want me to “watch this, Ms. Splashmom”, as several of them jump on the trampoline at once. One day, as eight children (DH and I counted) jumped on the trampoline together, we came indoors. It made me a nervous wreck thinking one of them would surely jump too high, bounce off the trampoline and impale him/her self on the picket fence. We asked our fence company if we could still install the privacy fence and just butt it right up against the picket fence, but there is some nonsense rule that there must be three feet between the fences, meaning we would lose three feet of our yard. We are having arborvitae installed to provide privacy on that side. We did have the privacy fence installed on all other sides. Two weeks after our installation was complete, we had a huge windstorm that felled a tree in the yard next door, bringing down a large portion of our new fence and damaging one of the downspouts on our house. That house was in foreclosure. Not only was the bank not interested in our damage, they wouldn’t send anyone out to take care of the tree, either. DH and I bought a chainsaw and took care of the portion of the tree that affected our fence and house. We called the fence company to repair the fence and paid the bill ourselves.</p>
<p>All that to say I don’t believe anyone (other than you) will step up and be responsible for your fence, especially since the house that shares the fence is in foreclosure. Good luck.</p>