<p>My school requires the non-custodial parent CSS stuff and all of my non-custodial parent’s tax documents. My NCP makes the EFC very high because he is a business owner. However, the divorce agreement stipulates that he will not be involved in paying for college, at all. My brother, who doesn’t seem to have taken this into account (or up with the FinAid office) is getting very little FinAid, and I am worried about this also. If I point this information out to the FinAid office at my university, will they reconsider my FinAid award?</p>
<p>A divorce agreement is usually a bargained for settlement between the spouses. One parent might have received some benefit in exchange for the other one saying he won’t pay for college. But it’s basically the same thing as one parent or both parents telling their kid they won’t pay. </p>
<p>But it usually can’t hurt to ask the FinAid to reconsider your award.</p>
<p>Ok, thanks.</p>
<p>Many schools will not consider your parents pre-nups, divorce decrees, side agreements etc. because Financial aid is determined by how much your parents (including stepparents to the extent your parent has benefitted from the marriage) can afford to pay based on their income and assets. FA is not based on how much they want to pay or documents that state they only “have” to pay X amount of $.</p>
<p>this is how Dartmouth handles it and their peer schools have similar policies:</p>
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<p>Ok, so there is some chance, however the outlook is not that good. You have been very helpful. Thank you for your effort and time.</p>
<p>All you can do is ask. Make sure you have the document.</p>
<p>This whole subject is quite annoying to me. I’m in a situation where my father will not contribute anything to my college and does not contribute anything now beyond what is court-ordered. I also had to send in the CSS non-custodial parent form, but it was a struggle to even get him to do it. He sent it in on the night of the due date. He will not be paying anything, yet my college still will see his income, which is higher than my mother’s, BUT–they will not see his debt, which is substantial. Though it is a “moral” responsibility, some parents just don’t have a sense of moral duty to their children…and mine happens to be one of them. I feel your pain, kstrike.</p>
<p>Sorry, just a vent!</p>
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<p>Most schools will not consider this at all. But you certainly can present your court documents to the finaid office and see.</p>
<p>tlesc01 The reality is that <em>I</em> wish I didn’t have to pay my kids’ college bills. I would much rather increase my retirement funds, and pay off my home. BUT the bottom line is that the colleges believe that parents SHOULD contribute to the college costs for their kidlets. And we are the parents of these kids, and we are fortunate to be able to contribute to their educations. </p>
<p>Simply put…colleges calculate aid based on what you CAN do…not what you WANT to do.</p>
<p>If this is an issue for college bound students of divorced parents…they should apply to FAFSA only schools where the non-custodial parent info is not required.</p>
<p>Yes, I understand this, and truth be told my parents will not be financing any of my college education. I will be paying for it later after I’m out of school. I know the system is a blanket policy, it just gets frustrating and it’s probably terrible for people in worse situations, like those who don’t have any idea where their fathers are.</p>