For males: how can you tell when a female has a crush on you? For females, what do

Pre-College Topics High School Life
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<p>haha girls smiling usually means nothing unless they stare at you a lot.</p>

<p>trust me, staring is usually the indicator. I mean staring, like on a consistent basis. not like one or two times because you’re butt ugly. LOL. people usually don’t KEEP staring at you because you’re ugly. it’s usually a one time thing.</p>

<p>but i’ve learned that if you want a girl to like you, don’t stare at them all the time. stare at them once like as if it was an accident and don’t stare at them again. </p>

<p>There are girls that smile at me because I’m friends with them and we like to alk, and I know girls who smile at me because they like me. you can usually tell.</p>

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<p>amen to that L_D, staring is usually the tipoff
and the rule for guys is: please don’t keep staring at girls, it’s makes them extremely uncomfortable, especially if you’re ugly lol</p>

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<p>There’s this cute girl who sits on the opposite side of the room from me in Spanish. I think she knows she’s attractive, but I don’t let her think that I think she is :D. I usually pretend like she’s not even there and only stare at her sometimes and make it seem like no big deal. The idea of it is to make the girl want your attention more. If you keep staring then she knows she has the upperhand and that there’s really no satisfaction then.</p>

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<p>for fun, i do that type of staring/eye candy games w/ certain hot girls during class to kill time
it’s so much fun from the back of the room lol</p>

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<p>"It all depends on the girl, I guess. Some girls will like to talk to you a lot and ask you questions (all the magazines that tell you how to meet guys say “ask him questions”), but others won’t be able to say a word to you. The latter doesn’t necessarily have to be the shy type, either - they just really hope that you will like them back and are scared of saying the wrong thing. And yet another, completely different category of girls just act absolutely normal around you, even if they like you - they try to act normally so you won’t possibly suspect their feelings.</p>

<p>So, all considered, it’s pretty hard to know if a girl likes you. If you want to go out with her or something, then your best bet is to ask her. The worst thing she could say is “no”, and you won’t get a date with her - but then that’s right back where you started, because she won’t go out with you if you don’t ask. At least if you’re brave and ask her, then you have a 50-50 chance of dating her. Maybe she will genuinely like you back: after all, she might be having the same problem, obsessing over whether or not you like her. Anyway, all I can say is that if you don’t tell her your feelings, you’re never gonna know unless she tells you first. There is no surefire way of knowing whether or not a girl likes you except for asking.</p>

<p>If you want her to like you, be nice to her, but gradually! It will look really weird if you suddenly are acting like her best friend! Anyway, being nice, just basically acting like the wonderful person you are will get you somewhere. In my opinion, the worst mistake a guy can ever make is to be kind of mean to the person they like. There is a guy who used to like me who kept poking me and being annoying. And another guy persistently said “Am I handsome? Am I? Am I? I’m so handsome, aren’t I?” I’m pretty sure that you won’t be that stupid, but I’m just making sure…"</p>

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<p>I’m usually completely oblivious to the signals that Little Duck gave. Usually, the way I figure this out is by somebody else telling me. Either that, or stalking, which is a very good indicator.</p>

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<p>■■■■■ I concur with the staring!
hahaha.
That hot guy sits like directly across from me in Health…prime staring position.
My fav class :P</p>

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<p>My rule: if you like the girl, that means she doesn’t like you.</p>

<p>btw, #1-3 are all just being polite. They probably do the same to all other people.</p>

<p>sorry bro.</p>

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<p>I call that politeness.</p>

<p>Honestly, if you have to ask, they probably don’t. Harsh but true.</p>

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<p>When their facebook status is your name scrambled… that’s when you know.</p>

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<p>Yeah, smiling and talking to people is called being friendly. :)</p>

<p>If you’re wondering if a girl “likes” you, there are probably different signs to look for. Different girls act differently around boys they like. You can’t generalize this.</p>

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<p>Maybe they’re only generalizing this because guys <em>can</em> be generalized on this…and so they assume girls are the same?
Let me turn this thread on it’s head: tell me how to know if a guy likes you?
Although now that I think about it…it’s really, really obvious most of the time…:)</p>

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<p>I know one foolproof way. </p>

<p>ASK. </p>

<p>Different girls give different signs.
For instance I generally become a lot more comfortable around guys and girls I like. I don’t know ANY other girl like that.</p>

<p>Oh and if your friends tell you that somebody likes you/is flirting with you, they’re normally right.</p>

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<p>OK since this is my first time writing on this thing, i say which every girl YOU feel comfortable with and can chill and not worry about anything is the girl that you dont like, and she probly doesnt like you, but the girl that you feel anxious around and cant concentrate proply is the girl you most likely like, and no doubt, if your funny, good looking and smart, she will like you.
Trust me on it…</p>

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if they stare at you in class for a very long time (almost like they were mesmerized) and suddenly doesn’t act they way he used to when you come up to him and talk to him.</p>

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<p>I sit behind the guy I like in my physics class, and I stare at the back of his head. He has a light brown mole on the right side of his lower neck, and a slight hunch. And shiny, gorgeous Asian hair.</p>

<p>Ahhhhhhhh.</p>

<p>(Note- This is very, very abnormal. But then again, most girls aren’t like me.)</p>

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<p>is it a friendly quick hi? or a longer, eyes meeting hi?</p>

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<p>None of them like you.</p>

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<p>you really can’t tell when girls have a crush on you, really really really can’t. I knew this one girl who was just flat out aloof with me and didn’t really even respond when I tried to talk to her but on the last day of art camp she started talking to me as if I was her best friend then tried to exchange numbers. They are strange beings indeed. If you really wanna know, I say ask them out and see how they respond.</p>

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I agree. You definitely need help</p>