<p>We do that too – make a grid of the time and each person selects a time and activity.
I wouldn’t spend time on the bus. NYC is a grid, mostly numbered, so you can’t go easily go wrong. The avenues run North/South and the streets East/West.</p>
<p>Fifth Ave is next to the Park with Central Park West on the other side.</p>
<p>I would go downtown for a meal in Little Italy or Chinatown depending on your family’s taste.</p>
<p>Metropolitan Museum is great, but so Museum of Natural History. If one of your kids is science-minded, s/he might prefer it. It also has a wonderful Planetarihereum which has been a lifelong addiction of mine as well as a butterfly conservatory (might be out of season.) There is a huge blue whale skeleton, primate diorama, gem room. </p>
<p>Each major museum is on the opposite side of the Park so I’d see one in the morning, walk through the Park. The Boathouse is beautiful but pricey. There are food trucks and a tiny cafe (I think, might have vanished) on the West side of the Park on the former site of Tavern on the Green. (I miss it, gaudy as it was.)</p>
<p>I’d go to Lincoln Center to see the fountain and Chagall window, Columbus Circle, the Time Warner Building and mall (all in the same place.) The redone Columbus Circle is really impressive.</p>
<p>Ruby Foo’s is a great Asian-Fusion place to eat in Times Square and great for a show. I’d choose Porgy and Bess which just won the Tony, as did Audra MacDonald, and is a true American classic. But that’s just me.</p>
<p>My absolutely favorite place in New York is The Cloisters. It’s way uptown so you’d need good directions to get there, but it’s an authentic medieval environment with a medieval garden and some of the actual unicorn tapestries. It’s run by the Metropolitan Museum.</p>
<p>And The Cathedral of St. John the Divine is the largest Gothic Cathedral in the world (I kid you not), and it’s right near Columbia on the Upper West Side/Morningside Heights.</p>
<p>If something you like is at Carnegie Hall, The Russian Tea Room is a great NY institution.</p>
<p>Serendipity 3 on the East Side in the 60’s (low sixties) has famous frozen hot chocolate and is in too many movies about NY (Serendipity for one) to count. It’s fun for kids to see movies and say, “We were there.”</p>
<p>Max Brenner’s is in Union Square (downtown) and is famous for all kinds of chocolate concoctions and a reasonable place to eat.</p>
<p>These are the kinds of things I go in Paris, so they’re the kinds of things I would see in NY.</p>