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<p>Kinsey is outdated, there is a lot of recent research on women’s sexuality that show that ideas of female sexual response have often been wrong. Women do @emeralkitty-</p>
<p>Kinsey is outdated, there is a lot of recent research on women’s sexuality that show that ideas of female sexual response have often been wrong.Among other thing, women do have fetishes, and it isn’t as small a number as reported (like a lot of things about women’s sexuality, it isn’t as obvious as with men, it works differently).</p>
<p>The other thing is BD/SM is a very, very large bunch of things put under one label, and only some of it can be classified as a fetish. There are people turned on by the images of it, the clothing and other regalia, but there is a large part that is very complex that is not fetishes, it isn’t about an object or an image, there are all kinds of things involved that have little or nothing to do with fetishes. I think there are more misconceptions about what it is or isn’t, I still see those who claim it is basically justified abuse, how it objectifies women as doormats to men (ironic in that there are a lot of submissive men out there, but no one ever mentions them, the assumption it is all men dominating women), all kinds of things…so maybe a discussion of it in an appropriate way isn’t such a bad thing, as long as it is fact based and not trying to either dissuade or encourage it. </p>