Friends are gone...

Pre-College Topics High School Life
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<p>I know it sounds sappy and stupid or whatever, but I cant stop cyring because my friends just trashed me and left me for dead. it turns out they ‘never’ liked me, so now i dont have any friends. im a pretty tough guy (195 lb football player), so i cant act depressed all the time. me and my friends were all surfers/car enthusiasts, and something just blew up. In my high school, if you dont have a group or friends, youre nothing and i dont know what to do. anybody else have a school like this that can relate?</p>

<p>I hope ppl in ga are better than these people in nc…</p>

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<p>wow you shouldnt have to go through this during your senior year</p>

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<p>Your former friends sound like the worst kind of losers. I’ll bet you can’t wait to head off to college–hopefully, somewhere they’re aren’t going! You’ll make plenty of new (and much better) friends in college, where most people have outgrown the petty cruelty of high school. Good luck!</p>

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<p>I think people should be a lot better in college. and it should be easier to find different groups of people.
there’s only a couple months left!</p>

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<p>Yah i wouldnt worry about it too much, anyone who acts like that probably isnt worth having as a friend. Once you move on to college people will probably be much more mature and friendly.</p>

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<p>A question:</p>

<p>Where are they going to college?</p>

<p>I ask because often when someone is going off to have an adventure and they don’t feel as lucky, not even sure if I am close on this, but they will push someone away first, knowing they will be left behind.</p>

<p>Not sure if this is the case, just a thought</p>

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<p>one’s going to east carolina and one’s going to community college
2 are in community college and the other 3 arent doing anything.</p>

<p>why would they not be friends with me and say the things they said just because ill be going away?</p>

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<p>I’ll be your friend. :)</p>

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<p>i cant really relate but i can tell you i dont like my friends sometimes. if they’re not gay they’ll get over it in a couple of weeks and you will be cool again. if not, its not worth your time. find some better friends.</p>

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<p>jealousy…and sadness you are leaving…its kind of like when kids fight with their parents ALOT before leaving for college…</p>

<p>your friends should be able to handle it, but if they see you moving on, and they are kind of stuck, well, it can be hard</p>

<p>but don’t let that stop you from doing what you want to do</p>

<p>they may come around</p>

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<p>if you’re a tough guy you wouldn’t be crying over this. Suck it up and make some new friends who are actually your friends this time</p>

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<p>man thats too bad, geez srry to hear that. :(</p>

<p>hope u feel better soon,</p>

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<p>it is okay to be upset and its normal</p>

<p>just keep busy…are you playing football in college, if so, train</p>

<p>if not, maybe get a job to fill the time…</p>

<p>also look around, you may see someone who is cool that you didn’t pay much attention to because you were with the other guys</p>

<p>it will be fine</p>

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<p>The South seems so… conservative. When I watched movies like Greese, I hope to G-d that High School wound;t really be like that. To my relief, my New York high school was very lax, and even if one is a loner, the worse thing that happens is someone comes up to them to talk.</p>

<p>I’m sorry, and I can’t imagine what it must’ve felt like. My best advice is to try to join new extracirriculars and meet different people – people you haven’t really considered.</p>

<p>Head up, the future is bright.</p>

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<p>I’m sorry, I feel your pain. I just basically ended my friendship with my (ex) best friend because she pretty much ditched me for this other girl and we haven’t hung out in about 4 months.
It sucks a lot because it’s senior year and I just wanted to spend it with my normal group of friends having fun but since that can’t happen I’ve branched out to people who I used to be friends with but wasn’t really close to so now I’ve been hanging out with them more.<br>
I hope things work out for you, whatever happens.</p>

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<p>gah friends totally suck. my friends totally left me for this really annoying girl, who ended up screwing them over something big.</p>

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<p>I know it’s sad but this is how it works.</p>

<p>Try to be friends with a lot of people and don’t just stay in the same “group” all the time.</p>

<p>It’s way better to be friends with girls, coz they 'll never ditch you, lol</p>

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<p>well friends can suck sometimes.
but i’ll be the bestest friend you`ll ever have
: )</p>