<p>Friends w/ benefits is always a bad idea. Someone always ends up getting hurt.</p>
<p>If you are the right kind of person I guess it could work, but generally it is going to wind up hurting someone, because most of us can’t stay emotionally detached.</p>
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<p>Allelujah!</p>
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<p>someone always ends up getting hurt in relationships. Hurt is inevitable in everything; you just need to determine if it’s worth it. IMO it is. Having a FWB is nice.</p>
<p>Like I once read in a book, “friends with benefits is all fun and games until someone falls in love”
Thats why i would not gravitate towards them</p>
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<p>There’s a difference btwn being a “wall-flower” nice-guy type (which pretty much most women dislike or not find interesting) and being a “nice-guy” (a guy who just happens to treat women well, but isn’t a pushover).</p>
<p>Many of my male friends are “nice guys” of the latter type - and they have no problem attracting the opposite sex (granted, it doesn’t hurt that a good no. of them are extremely good-looking).</p>
<p>Girls go for jerks because they think they can “change” the bad guys. It’s stupid, really; the only person one can change in a relationship is him/herself.</p>
<p>Friends with benefits is just eww!</p>
<p>Anyway, one ‘friend’ usually likes the other or ends up doing so which complicates things.</p>
<p>Friends with benefits is just eww!</p>
<p>Anyway, one ‘friend’ usually likes the other or ends up doing so which complicates things.</p>