This reminds me of this: When dynosaurs still roamed the world, I was “helping” my then GF (now wife) a lot on some subjects I was naturally better than her.You could hardly know the dynamic between a hormone raging young couple.
Almost half a century later, I think I would agree at what is posted here (i.e., the girlfriend’s future is none of her boyfriend’s business.)
Hmm…I also do not know the dynamics between DS and his GF, who are almost 10 years older than OP and his GF. One thing is for sure: The way they handle things is very different than what we would do. But I do know one thing: the decisions, no matter what the consequence is, are theirs, not mine. (God bless them. And bless me as well for not thinking too much about it – doing so would drive me crazy.)