<p>The dumb jock and the wimpy nerd are just stereotypes. At my son’s school they found that playing on a team actually increased grades. It did so for my S. The discipline and commitment required for the team made it impossible to procrastinate on his studies.</p>
<p>You have another thread about weightlifting. Trying to be your best physically and intellectually go hand in hand. </p>
<p>By the way, your dad coming to America is a huge accomplishment and has made your choices possible. Show some respect, count your blessings, and perhaps your folks will give you some respect in return. They obviously care for your well being or they would just let you do as you please.</p>