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<p>It may well have been a sacrifice, moving to a completely different country (away from friends and family) when he could have been successful in the country of his birth.</p>
<p>While your parents may display some “overbearing tiger parent” characteristics, the attitude that comes through your posts probably is not helping.</p>
<p>As far as football goes, that is a fine extracurricular (and an unusual one that stands out better than the usual “tiger cub” ones), but most football players do not end up in the NFL, or even getting a free college education out of their sport (and playing football in college is time consuming and may make it difficult to take time consuming computer science courses with programming assignments). Realistically, you still have to do well in school, so do not neglect that while playing football.</p>