<p>This is just a simple advice post and may contain some contraversial themes, so take it with a grain of salt. I am telling you this because Cal will be the most growth-inducing, existentially-wrenching, and confusing 3-5 years of you or your son/daughter’s young life and it is simply the facts from my experience:</p>
<p>To get into Cal, you probably should be in the top 10% and probably have a good chance in the top 25% if your HS is really competitive.</p>
<p>Geting an SAT over 1300 or ACT over 27 will greatly bolster your chances, especially if your grades are strong with APs. (3.9 (4.1w) or better) As they have done away with AA (though we know this already, which has resulted in the supermajority of asians, while other races like whites, latinos and blacks are being squeezed out – much to the detriment of the quality of life at the university for other students), do not rely on your race to get you in – go to school, work hard and do your best.</p>
<p>Apply undeclared, even if you are absolutely sure you know what you do. You can still take the classes, it may just be a little harder to get into them your first couple semesters, but take this opportunity to expand your mind and learn something outside your field of interest. You will be amazed by how much it can help you down the road. </p>
<p>Once you declare a major, it is often difficult to get out or switch. Applying undeclared will prevent you, especially if you are an obviously qualified, from being bounced if you pick one of the “Impacted” or over-populated majors. It may sound like you are being wishy-washy, but it actually shows the admissions officers that you are open, rather than deadset on being MCB or Engineering or Poli Sci.</p>
<p>Write a good essay that makes you seem more than a robot who just churns out good grades and test scores. Express interest in something other than school, do as many ECs as you have time for. Look like you have social skills, something a lot of Cal students obviously lack, as demonstrated by our new commercial this year.</p>
<p>Oh, and one last thing? Luck. Lots of it. </p>
<p>Okay; so now you are in.</p>
<p>“It’s okay to be weird at Cal, because everyone is weird!” As that young lady said in the commercial, holding up her ID proudly. Yes Cal people are weird, but don’t make it a purpose. Out and out Weirdness is somewhat tolerated here, but not in the real world. I know several Cal alumni (and drop outs!), who had to go running back to Berkeley itself because they simply could not hack it or handle the real world despite being (allegedly) the top of their class here.</p>
<p>Do not expect everyone to be your friend. There will simply be a group of people you don’t get along with. Deal with it. Besides, social challenges are good. Toughen the soul and make your stronger.</p>
<p>Do not limit your social life to the Dorm. You will miss out on a lot and get into a habit of staying in every saturday night and doing nothing. Except possibly smoking pot and drinking courtesy of the 21 year old transfer student. </p>
<p>Do not immediately discount the Greek system. We might have a negative rep (mostly media induced, thank you), but we also do a lot of good things for the community. It also is a great way to meet people and develop those valuable social and networking skills that will help you suceed later in life that are otherwise untaught at Berkeley. Remember, it’s not what you know – it’s who you know and will always be that way unless we have some massive human paradigm shift. Oh, and the housing is far cheaper than many apartments if you can deal with the hierarchy that can be a real nuisance the first two semesters.</p>
<p>Do not get snared into drugs, as tempting as they are. Do I really need to explain this? Experimenting is fine. Making it the center of your social life? Not fine.</p>
<p>Find a new hobby. Play an instrument. Write. Do something that will distinguish you from the herds of wannabes and wonks!</p>
<p>Enjoy the Freshman Herd Mentality during the Welcome Week. This is the funnest part of being at Cal, because you feel the most accepted right here. Enjoy it, but don’t get used to it because these same five-minute friends will forget and ditch you when school starts. If you are going to be a Dormy, find 5-6 people you get along with really well and stick with them after the first week.</p>
<p>Keep an open mind academically. I was deadset on business when I first arrived at Cal and it ruined my first two years. Finally, I gave up and picked something else. It’s not what I wanted, but at least I’m getting a degree, so I can go to Grad School.</p>
<p>Tell your TAs (Called GSIs here, which I happen to think is enormously pretentious) and Profs to shove it once in awhile. Not literally, but do it by not staying in on Friday or Saturday and studying. There is a huge beautiful world out there, explore! Get out! Have fun! Even if it is for an hour or two, drinking coffee at Cafe Strada or bumming around the bar-resturaunts on Telegraph, or browsing the Indie Section at Rasputin and Amoeba. You never know who or what you’ll meet and find! At the very worst, you’ll have a funny horror story to tell your friends back at the dorms/co-op/frat/sorority/etc and your friends back home. </p>
<p>Share your voice, even if others make you falter. It will only reinforce your views, help you forge new ones and understand the world better. People at Cal seem to be notoriously unkind to those who have differing opinions than theirs. Of course, I may just be in trouble because I am a libertarian, but that’s beside the point.</p>
<p>Case in point: I am personally against abortion, but I don’t want to get rid of it – I see it a a necessary evil in certain cases. </p>
<p>I shared this once, but before I could get the second clause in, I got a ranting diatribe about how I am a Bush-supporter and how Republicans are not welcome here. BEFORE I could even finish getting ‘but’ out of my mouth. I then tried to explain and said person and their group got in a huge huff and walked away, after they themselves had the audacity to ask me what my opinion was. Do not let them finish the first sentence of their lecture about your “evils”, if you have to explain your reasons, do so. But be forceful and do not let them drown you out. These people are the MOST insecure and need to be put into “their place” so to speak, because one person with negative press of you in the dorm can ruin the entire experience.</p>
<p>When I ran into said person later, I tried to explain and they simply said I was weak by trying to change my opinion to get along and it wasn’t going to work. I hate the crap and it is far far far too common here. Please, new people – don’t do that. It’s REALLY annoying and a very bad social habit to develop. It may get you a head in your social group, but in the real world? You will be eaten alive.</p>
<p>Berkeley is not racially very diverse and that’s a fact. All this claim of diversity is B.S. and unless you are really into the various Asian culture, it’s hard to find substantial groups that do anything else that otherwise not limit your opps to meet people. </p>
<p>Whites, and Jews especially, tend to be somewhat reviled in some circles, so if you have an interest in Palestinian Liberation or what not, and are of the “Diametrically” (see Jewish heritage or right of very “liberal”) opposed group? Don’t bother. </p>
<p>On the flipside; liberalism is not as prevalant as it once was. We have a strong conservative and moderate minority here. Though I would prefer to see a balance of power, the ultra-conservatives are definately gaining a POWERFUL foothold.</p>
<p>If you are in an impacted major, be prepared not to have a social life as the classes are very competitive and you will need every free minute to prepare for the rigorous exams. If you REALLY REALLY want to go to Med School or be an engineer going to grad school and have a social life, go elsewhere. Otherwise, come and enjoy.</p>
<p>Wacky GSIs are also a fact. Arbitrary grades can be a fact. If you feel you have been wronged, don’t take it idly like I did. Seek the Office of Student Life for this and any other beef you have with your instructors. If an instructor gives you a C-, even if you worked your tail off, you have it in your rights to challenge them. Though rare, there are instructors who will punish you for your race, gender, political ideas, religion and so on even though they are not supposed to. Also, you will have professors that give lectures on contraversial and often emotion inducing topics that can be offensive to your particular social group. </p>
<p>I’ll let you figure this one out of your own. Don’t want to give you a total “strategy” guide to life at Cal.</p>
<p>Guys; if you are expecting to find a beautiful wife here; forget it. The hot girls are few and far between. Settle for someone decent looking and with a good personality. You’ll be much happier.</p>
<p>Girls; same goes for you. A lot of the guys here are idiots. Find a nice guy who may be second tier in appearance. You’ll be much happier than having to chase a player-jerk around. </p>
<p>Both: It will provide you with a stable anchor if you can find someone who you love and who geniunely loves you back and you can avoid a lot of the emotional pitfalls of College, which at Cal, you do not have time to deal with.</p>
<p>Finally: Leave your homelife at home. Do not hold on to old boyfriends and girlfriends, I can promise you, they are not waiting for you. Forget your insecurities. Call Mommy or Daddy one time a week, for fifteen minutes to say hi, keep them updated, but otherwise restrict how much contact you have with home. You will otherwise get homesick and get depressed. Also, you have to be a self-starter. Do NOT expect anyone to help you, even with the tutoring services available. You are here to learn how to be independent and function as a human being, not have your hand held.</p>
<p>Hope this has been helpful.</p>