<p>So, I work at Target. Anyways, there is this girl there that I really like and want to ask out. However, there are a couple problems. First, I would have no time/place to ask her out. We only work every couple of days so that restricts the time I get to see her. Also, I can never get her alone to ask her out. We’re both cashiers so there is always somebody(whether a customer or co-worker) around. I’m sorry but I don’t have the balls to ask her out in front of dozens of co-workers and customers. </p>
<p>Second problem:
I don’t know if she has a boyfriend. I’ve thought of a couple ways I could ask her without seeming weird, but I would like some more advice. </p>
<p>Third:
I’m not sure if she likes me. I think she does, but then again, she could just be acting nice. She always picks the register next to mine, even when there are a bunch of other open ones. She also talks to me a lot. This may seem trivial, but I rarely see her talking to any of the other guys that work there. </p>
<p>So, I think you all get the jist of my dilemma. Advice, anyone? </p>
<p>Oh, and please only constructive responses. Please don’t tell I just need to man up and ask her out or that I have no balls. I know this already. That is why I am asking this on here.</p>
<p>facebook? that will help tremendously…even if it is a bit stalkerish.</p>
<p>Anyways, balls are tough to get. I had tremendous difficulty growing a pair last year…but I made it through and had to go through a hell of a lot more haha. </p>
<p>You don’t necessarily even need to ask her out directly. Watch a movie, grab a bite to eat, etc. are all fine ways. She’ll probably get it and if she is interested she’ll be happy, if she isn’t, at least it won’t be a blatant rejection.</p>
<p>I’m no authority on the subject though haha, this is my experience with girls I don’t really like beyond an physically attractive sort of level. I still suck at manning up with the girl I really like haha.</p>
<p>My advice is just get her number or at least friend her on facebook. Then see how things work. Does she always go next to you because you’re the only high school kids that work there? That’s always a possibility.</p>
<p>Facebook is the easiest way. And it won’t look suspicious if you add her (since you probably know her better than 90% of the people on your friends list).</p>
<p>Hmm I don’t see what’s wrong with working at Target? I mean I guess it’s better that Wal-Mart…and some people just need that money.</p>
<p>But anyways, tbh based on your description, I wouldn’t be so sure that she likes you back enough. Maybe as a friend? So I recommend pursuing that friendship a bit more…through I suppose, like the others suggested, Facebook? Then ask her out.</p>
<p>Okay, so a new movie is coming out, or a new show has just started airing.</p>
<p>Talk about something media-related; you can’t go bad with that, unless… she has no t.v./internet/cellphone/newspaper/ipod/any source of media, you won’t fail.</p>
<p>Just bring it up while you’re working and it’s slow. Be like, “Oh, did you watch Fastforeward that just aired last Thursday? I really liked it! It was so much like Lost.”</p>
<p>Or…</p>
<p>“Hey, you heard of the new movie coming out? [Insert Move Title]. My friends are busy, and they can’t come with me. Want to watch it sometime?”</p>
<p>I think casual-ness is a good start. If you’re awkward, or try to hard, it’s really obvious. That’s fail right there.</p>
<p>Forget about her for now. First off you work with her, so think about what would happen if you actually were to go out with her: either a). It would be bad -> work time would be awkward -> she’d start talking to some other guy -> you’d get jealous -> can you spell sexual harassment suit in the making? OR b). it would go fine -> you’d have a few good months -> you’d break up -> insert a). here. Either way you’re screwed if you want to keep the job.
The other thing is you said you think she is amazing… only neediness and obesseion can come out of that.
If anything, wait until one of you quits before you ask her out. Will solve both of your problems at once because you’ll get over this idealized version of her you have. Until then, just keep on rolling business as usual…</p>
<p>Nobody wants to keep a Target job for months. </p>
<p>Reminds me of a That 70’s Show episode.</p>
<p>Fatso Burger Employee doing interviews: Where do you see yourself in five years?
Eric: Fatso Burger.</p>
<p>He quit after an episode. </p>
<p>However, employee relationships are common in any job. A mutually agreed upon relationship hardly constitutes as sexual harassment. It’ll be fine.</p>