<p>I understand the OP’s point of origin on this, and it’s easy to see the logic, but I was at a large family dinner today and there was a blessing and the blessing specifically expressed thanks and wishes for the family members, present and absent.</p>
<p>One could argue that that is offensive. One could argue that God bless America, by comparison, is remarkably broad-minded and expansive. But few people read into that much more narrow supplication directed to our family members that ill will or the Creator’s disfavor should rain down upon all those not expressly mentioned.</p>
<p>God bless America is not a command or request for special treatment as much as it’s an expression of who we regard as our close family. I think it’s a wonderful or profound statement – more worthy of being our national anthem, in fact, than the Star Spangled Banner – largely because of its inclusive lyrics. I think it’s a wonderful sentiment to regard this nation of ours as a home and as our family (complete with dysfunctional quibbling!) in the same way I felt a connection to my own family at today’s blessing when prayers and wishes were focused on the relatives with whom I was breaking bread and others who could not be physically present with us.</p>
<p>Zeroing in on a focus group that’s more finite than “all of the universe and beyond” isn’t a device that’s excluding. That misses the beauty and magic of the prayer message. The focus doesn’t exclude others outside the focus. It connects us to all that’s within the focus.</p>
<p>Again, just earlier this week, I attended an interdenominational breakfast held to call attention to the suffering of the civilians in Iraq – an event attended by those who support and oppose the war – and by offering prayers and supplications for those people, nobody was excluding impoverished Americans, Coalition troops, vicitms of genocide in Darfur, or political and military leaders. Instead, what happened – or was supposed to happen – was that we were connecting with the civilians in Iraq that morning and recognizing them as part of our family. Asking for a blessing from your preferred divine force is a very powerful device…a device of connectivity, not exclusion.</p>
<p>As for those who erect a wall when they hear the term “God,” consider breaking down these barriers that are needlessly thrown up – even if you think it is the speaker or writer who’s at fault. Instead, consider that word – if you will – to be a shorthand for the terminology you prefer to use for the universal prime mover, the ultimate supernatural being, Creator, Jehovah, Yahweh, Truth, Allah, Almighty, Lord, providence, Ishtar, Ashanti, Parvati, Vishnu, Krishna, Kahuna, Karma Fairy, spiritforce, Gaia, Prince of Light, Holy Ghost, Zeus, Ra, intelligent designer, Big Bang, big guy (or rabbi) in the sky, Nanook, Odin, Oracle, etc., whether singular or plural, masculine, feminine, neuter or other.</p>