My first kid didn’t care if he did it or not, so we all did it for us (he didn’t complain). When it was finished he said he was so glad he did it.
My current graduate really agonized Saturday and I’m so glad his college is postponed not cancelled. And it’s a big 10 school.
There are so very few formal events to celebrate our loved ones and I consider college graduation one of them.
Graduation, marriage, showers, anniversary parties…not a lot where people gather to celebrate Ourselves and Ones We Love.