To be fair to yourself, @blossom, what you are demonstrating isn’t narcissism, secret or open, but pride in your children’s accomplishments. The fact that you felt rewarded by your children’s success, the fact that you felt a sense of accomplishment from the attention that your children get, is the opposite of narcissism.
It is, rather, the very essence of parenthood. You don’t feel that any attention your kids get takes anything away from you, and you are happy to be a spectator when your children take center stage.