<p>A lot of food for thought in this research:</p>
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<p>A lot of food for thought in this research:</p>
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<p>Weren’t there already four threads on the same topic, now merged into one?
<a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/parents-forum/1447000-study-finds-increased-parental-support-college-results-lower-grades.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/parents-forum/1447000-study-finds-increased-parental-support-college-results-lower-grades.html</a></p>
<p>I don’t agree. Not all students who have parents footing the bill are ungrateful, spoiled brats who view their college education as merely a paid 4 year vacation. In my opinion, it’s more bad parenting or low ambition/determination/drive by the students which are the root cause.</p>
<p>It could be that wealthier parents are more likely to enable marginal students to go to college, while the marginal students from poor families just do not go.</p>
<p>It could also be that the kids whose parents can not or will not help have to look for schools with merit aid, and the school they attend is less competitive. Instead of a 3.5 at NYU, they are getting a 3.8 at Podunk U.</p>
<p>There are several threads on this article. Merging them might be helpful</p>
<p>In my personal experience with my DD I have found this not to be true. We are paying the full cost of college, she pays for her personal expenses earned from her summer job. She is getting better grades in college than in high school, she works her little behind off and has a 3.8. She is trying hard to graduate in 4 years with her Master’s degree so she can take some graduate courses at the undergrad rate so it is less expensive for us. She has taken 20 credit hours the last two semesters. I think she doesn’t fit the profile.</p>
<p>I agree that many kids are very grateful that they’re parents are paying.</p>
<p>That said, there are some spoiled kids out there just wasting the folks’ money. They’re one of the reasons that the saying “shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves in 3 generations” was coined.</p>