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<p>You are obviously a very bitter person. Maybe it would help if you talked to a friend.</p>
<p>And you must be a happy “A”. You shouldn’t be calling parents of "B"s “bitter”–you should be thanking them for their contribution to your education.</p>
<p>Life stopped being fair the moment you were conceived. Get over it.</p>
<p>I have. We’re just not going to support one of these schools by paying full tuition so they can spread our wealth around. </p>
<p>But wait–isn’t spreading the wealth all about “fairness”? Obviously, the definition of “fair” depends upon which side you’re on.</p>
<p>The problem with this argument is that A’s and B’s both are taxpayers and B’s tuition dollars are not even covering their own expenses, let alone A’s expenses. Federal aid is based on our society’s collective determination that equal access
to education and opportunity is critical to our continued prosperity as a nation. If that is a problem for you, there are better avenues available to make your voice heard. Institutional aid comes largely from endowments. These are funded by private donors, who may choose to spend their dollars in whatever way seems fit. College is generally very expensive for everyone but a small percentage of A’s and B’s.</p>
<p>The A’s and B’s are both adults of legal age. The financial standing of their parents should not be the University’s business. The government seems to have that undertaking well under control. </p>
<p>Imagine being an 18-year old, getting ready to, say, lease an apartment and the landlord asks to see your parent’s financial statements before he tells you the rental price. The more money your parents have, the higher the rent. In the same building, he leases the same apartments to others for free or reduced amounts. Is this “fair”? Why would it be fair for education, which you seem to be saying is a basic “right”, and not for housing?</p>
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<p>If a school like Vanderbilt is “need blind”, meets 100% of need to all admitted students with no loans, has endowments that were invested in stocks that are now worth 60% of what they were last fall, has seen a decrease in new endowments, and has fewer full-pays matriculating, tuition will most definitely go up. The aid has to come from somewhere, and it is not all from endowments. The full-payers are taking up the slack.</p>
<p>I’m just not following this line of reasoning at all right now. If the apartment building is funded by public dollars, there probably IS an income scale! Ever hear of Section 8 or HUD? Have you ever filled out a rental application for a privately owned building? There are most definitely income and employment questions and if your income is not sufficient, you will need a co-applicant. Are you saying that housing is also not a basic human right and necessity? Personally, I don’t care to live in a nation where only the “haves” can be college educated or have a roof over their head! How poor we would all be…</p>
<p>You DO NOT have to pay the 52000 Vanderbilt price, at all, if you really don’t want to, since that seems to be what is bothering you.</p>
<p>You live in KY? UK tuition, room, and board is about 14000. </p>
<p>Not everyone can afford a Lexus. You may have to buy a Toyota or Hyundai.</p>
<p>“Despite the fact that college tuition rose much more rapidly than either consumer prices or family incomes during the 1980s and 1990s, few college students paid the full cost of higher education during this period. Those who attended public colleges and universities paid relatively low tuition, with state taxpayers funding much of the cost of running these institutions. Students enrolled in private colleges and universities generally paid significantly higher tuition, but that tuition was rarely high enough to cover costs, which have traditionally been subsidized by private donors.”</p>
<p>But under your scenario, iconplaybass, some kids (adults, really) are getting the Lexus for free, and the ones with the “rich” parents have to ask their parents to pay for it. And if the “rich kid” wants to be treated as an independent adult, they should choose the hyundai. Exactly my point. </p>
<p>The schools, with this kind of policy, will be building a student body of a few ultra-rich and the rest on financial aid. As a poster pointed out on another thread, the middle-to-upper-middle class is being squeezed out. I don’t think schools like this can last for long in this economy. </p>
<p>And sk8rmom, I’m not talking about Section 8 housing. I’m talking about Vanderbilt. I don’t think they are comparable.</p>
<p>Its all about Vanderbilt, isn’t it?</p>
<p>Why don’t you take this up directly with them? Give them a piece of your mind, if you will.</p>
<p>No, it’s not only Vanderbilt. They are just a good example of the problem. </p>
<p>Tell my D who has equal or better credentials than the many who are posting on these forums who are getting the Lexus for free that she has to pay full price for the same car. She’s extremely driven and self-motivated and wants to be independent. She is her own person, not just the D of a “rich” parent, and she is choosing to buy the Hyundai. And the Hyundai dealership is treating her like they are fortunate to have her. Perhaps the wisest investment in the long run.</p>
<p>The big donors to schools like Vanderbilt, the target of your ire, are wealthy individuals, families and private corporations. Their donations are what finance need-based grants and scholarships. People like Martha Ingram and the Ingram family have decided the country is a better place if students who hail from lower income families have an opportunity to get a first-rate undergraduate education. They believe Vanderbilt is a better university when people from different places and different backgrounds go to school together.</p>
<p>What you seem to be suggesting is that Vanderbilt should charge every single student the same amount, and that amount should be low enough that every 18 yr. old adult can afford it. In the absence of very considerable additional donations from wealthy contributors, Vanderbilt would not be Vanderbilt in that scenario–it would be a community college. </p>
<p>It seems to me it is hard to get around the fact that voluntary contributions from alumni and other interested parties are crucial to the existence of private schools, and many of those contributors applaud the effort to end the all-white, all-wealthy image of yesteryear.</p>
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<p>Your daughter is a wise person. Perhaps you would do well to learn from her.</p>
<p>I have to say I like the HarVandy thing, though. It is rare indeed for Vanderbilt and Harvard to be mentioned in the same sentence on CC.</p>
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<p>Funny you see it this way. She thinks she is learning from me, by working hard for her own achievements. Both of her parents worked their way through college and have been very successful in their careers, and saved and invested wisely. She wants a chance to do the same. Overpriced colleges, even with the glamour of their name, aren’t going to fit into her plan to be financially independent.</p>
<p>I am terribly sorry to have offended you as I am a group A person. You’re absolutely right, my parents are poor so I don’t have the right to a good education. Duh, how silly of me.</p>
<p>Get over it. Your lucky enough that your parents can afford your education, so you prbably live a comfortable life. Come to my world. I am 18 and have lived in more than 14 different places because of evictions and other issues. I would gladly have your problem.</p>
<p>Sorry, just realized you were a mom. In that case, you’re right. You should have to contribute nothing to your children’s education. It is entirely your choice whether or not you want to. If you have the resources then you should contribute, but you could make them do it on their own. But don’t punish us poor students because you CHOOSE not to contribute to your child’s educational cost, when OUR parents don’t have the choice to contribute. However, your son/daughter does not HAVE to go to that top notch private school. It is a LUXURY, not a right. He/she could just as easily go to a state school and graduate with little to no debt. Is it ideal? No. But, it is a decision he/she will have to make. </p>
<p>Besides, at 18, who supports us? Our parents. If I had to pay for school entirely on my own, I would never be able to go. But my parents can’t afford it either which is why the government helps me. Is it fair that someone like me, who has no resources to contribute to their education, should be punished to graduate with $200,000 in debt, whereas someone who is in a position to not recieve financial aid (meaning that they must have had the income or the resources to be in that position) should be able to borrow from their parents and only graduate with say, $50,000 in debt, because their parents could contribute money to help out. </p>
<p>But again, you’re absolutely right. Just because we have poor parents means that we should not have a right to a decent higher education. I totally forgot that we live in a society where only the nobles have a right to a higher education. Silly, I thought we lived in America.</p>
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And if I come off as sounding like attacking your view point, make no mistake, I am. If you are really going to cut off your 18 year old and provide them with no financial help simply because they are legally adults, then that is your problem. If you are getting no aid from a school that meets 100% of need, then you ma’am do not have a ton of need. Am I saying your son/daughter will graduate with no debt? Absolutely not. Am I saying you probably have the resources to at least cover some of the costs? Absolutely. But if you are selfishly going to cut off your child because they are an adult, then that is your problem. But do not blame us, the group Aers, because our parents don’t have the luxury to simply decide if they want to help us or not. </p>
<p>Also, yeah at 18 you are an adult. But you have had neither the time nor the resources to build up enough money to be financially indepedent. Therefore, it is completely fair to expect what parents can pay.</p>