<p>Hi,
I am a parent of a freshman at Harvard and I enjoyed reading everybody comment,suggestions,etc.
While I am thrilled that my son is at Harvard, I am surprise that he never calls home. Everybody says this is normal behavior but I did not expected this lack of communication. I am having a hard time adjusting to this total disappearance, he is only 17!
Can somebody explain why is this and what is the best way to respond and come to terms?Thank you</p>
<p>My kids are the same way; it’s absolutely normal, it’s part of the “letting go” process a parent has to go through, but it does take a while to get used to the absence of communication. The good news is: your kid is engaged with their classes, homework and friends. If there is a problem or if they need more money, they will call home. FWIW: The most we get are short texts in response to questions like “What class is your favorite?” or “How’s the food?” If you are not already, may I suggest you become friends with your kids on facebook. That way, you can actually see photos of them and be reassured that they are okay.</p>