She has the internship lined up. It sounds like she wants to try it. However, she also wants to do this co-op first.
Again, do you have concerns for self-harm or safety?
She is 20 years old. Shes otherwise done well so far. But the past couple of years has been hard and isolating for many young adults. What are her reasons for why she wants to do the farm work?
I suggested that without worries for self harm, to perhaps show support and let her go. Let her know you love and support her no matter if she does the internship or not.
Your response was “I disagree with you because I think it’s unhealthy to give kids everything that they desire — especially when they are mentally ill”.
I get that its hard to let go. Especially when youve seen them struggle. But putting a short leash and trying to control the situation because of our own parental anxiety isnt healthy for our kids growth.