<p>Rabbi’s spouse here (some already know this about me but it’s relevant to my posting) and certified NYS teacher as well. (What a pain I must be…) </p>
<p>The public school system excuses us for many days of religious observance. If you do them all, from the first and last days of every fall festival (Sukkot, Simchat Torah…) AND the High Holy Days, it’s a lot of days. It’s a trust and responsibility to be as forthcoming as possible with the latitude provided. </p>
<p>I feel she was right to take her days, AND to tell all her teachers in advance. </p>
<p>But, from the teacher’s viewpoint, the learning gained from each lab is part of the flow of the learning of the course. To hand them in many weeks, rather than days later, was not the best possible approach to Learning the Physics. Even then she handed all in only after it was brought up to him re: interim grades. How was he supposed to know she’d be forthcoming ever?</p>
<p>I always advised my kids to not only tell teachers about missed days for religious observance, but be willing to take tests and hand in assignments a day EARLIER if the teacher wished it, especially if there was any question of finding out the direction of a quiz questions. Some schools have policies to give no major tests on HHD. We get a lot of leeway, really. </p>
<p>We have every constitutional right to observe our holidays and we should, IMHO. Keep up the other side of the bargain, however, and turn in missed work VERY soon afterward, if not before, the missed day. I’m really a bear on this particular subject with kids in our congregation as well as my own biokids. </p>
<p>I think you were lucky to end up with A’s once she turned them in that late. I didn’t even follow the “honesty” issue because I began being on the teacher’s side as soon as your story unfolded. </p>
<p>We only got as far as we got by busting our educational chops in this country. I teach my own kids to do the same (no real impact on the congregation’s kids on these points, hwoever, that’s up to their parents, LOL)</p>