<p>Use looking good and feeling good as a motivation. Or think about someone of the opposite sex that you really want and how to get them you’ll need to look your best. Appearance is one of the few things in life that you are in control of, yet it seems to be the hardest thing to change for some people. You need to get serious or it’s not going to happen. You don’t have to be a health freak but need to make some simple changes in your lifestyle.</p>
<p>First thing, you need to <em>gradually</em> start to lay off the junk food, try to eat an apple or banana today, and some water. At first it won’t taste very good but eventually it will taste normal and habitual (I’m addicted to water…). Don’t eat any premade snacks or meals, try to cook chicken, eggs, beef, or fish yourself or have some yogurt, nuts, vegetables, fruits, occasionally peanut butter. Think natural foods. Do this slowly though because if you do it too fast you’ll get burnt out and go back to junk food. Think of the long term, one day of eating right won’t make that much of a difference but one year will make a HUGE difference.</p>
<p>Also, I recommend splitting meals (3-4 is OK, 6 is best) up into the day and having a plan, it’s easier to follow so that you get into a habit. Remember though, you either do one of two things- Gain fat and muscle, or lose fat and muscle, depending on your calorie intake, and how healthy your food is (you can gain a lot of muscle without gaining much fat…and lose a lot of fat and not lose much muscle). Eating below your caloric intake and you lose weight, above and you gain weight. With cardio, you can probably eat just as much as you did before and still lose weight. But don’t starve yourself, that would be the worst. I’d suggest lifting weights to try to keep your exisiting muscle, plus lifting helps increase metabolism, makes you feel better, and I think it makes your skin tighter.</p>
<p>As for cardio, don’t overdo yourself. If you haven’t been doing anything, just go for a mile walk or something every day. Make it relaxed and enjoyable but yet so your body can feel it too. Eventually you can push it up to 4 miles or until you feel comfortable to start jogging.</p>
<p>Good luck, ask if you have any questions.</p>