Help Decide Between WPI, Lehigh, Lafayette, W&M, and Skidmore!

Looking for insight regarding the following in-budget options for DD who is interested in a strong STEAM program (maybe Engineering or Applied Science). Focused on fit - seeking a welcoming campus community for a student who wants to pursue project-based STEAM coursework with the opportunity to layer in some design courses.

Looking for feedback on the strength of these programs or special advantages they may offer:

Skidmore (Physics/Chem): Porter Wachenheim Scholarship $43k COA

WPI (Engineering): $50K COA

Lafayette (Engineering): Marquis Scholar: $54k COA

Lehigh (Engineering + open curriculum): Trustee Scholar / IDEAS program: $53k COA

W&M (Physics/Chem + Applied Science): Monroe Scholar: $60K COA (offered $4000 internship stipend + $1500 research stipend)

Skidmore has the lowest COA, but concerned about the breadth of STEAM opportunities for four years.

W&M is appealing for the Monroe Scholar offerings, warmer weather and beautiful campus, wide range of majors and potential access to graduate level courses. Are these perks worth the highest COA?

WPI’s advantages include the engineering + humanities structure with study abroad opportunities, but the gender ratio is a bit rough (64m/37w). Smallest school with limited major options if she decides not to pursue engineering.

Lafayette is appealing for its LAC approach and smaller size with an engineering program. Loved that she can study abroad through the engineering program. Can she find her crowd outside of Greek life?

Lehigh’s advantages include engineering at a research institution with a wider range of majors including design and STEM offerings through the flexible IDEAS program. Is the vibe welcoming outside of Greek life?

Planning on attending admitted student days, but any insight is appreciated! Thanks in advance.