HELP - dgtr wants to move in with boyfriend

<p>zafiro,
I hope I am wrong here, but it sounds like you are more concerned about how much money this boy is making, or will make in the future, than what kind of person he is. Not everybody puts making lots of money at the absolute top of his/her priorities in life.
I bring this up because you seem very judgmental of him. If his parents are deceased, that is probably not his fault and I would not get all bent out of shape if he didn’t thank me properly…who woul’dve ever taught him that?
Now if he treats her horribly or is obviously taking advantage of her, that is another story. But if it’s just a matter of him being from the wrong side of the tracks, that’s something else. </p>

<p>From my own personal experience: I married such a person when I was very young and he did not have much drive, as you say. He was and is a hard worker, though. BTW we are still married nearly 20 years later, but I will never forget some of the digging comments made about my H by my father (who himself is far from perfect!). Just please be careful about what you say to your D about this boy because she MIGHT be with him permanently. Of course, odds are that she won’t, but you never know.</p>