<p>Thanks for all the advice. I truly appreciate all who have taken the time to reply.</p>
<p>notre dame AL - Thanks for asking about my H. Fortunately, H’s injuries were not life threatening, but the accident was very frightening. H and I were driving two separate cars to visit youngest D in a major east coast city. D was working a temporary job and at first believed she wouldn’t need her car with her. Ultimately, she decided she needed to have it, so, good old mom and dad had to bring it to her. We were driving just outside of the downtown area of “big city” in the center lane of a 3 lane east bound interstate highway. It was about 7:00 p. m. on a clear June day. Traffic was flowing smoothly and most drivers were actually obeying the 55 mph speed limit and not tail-gating. Amazing! Out of the corner of my eye, I saw a driver come speeding past me on my left. I’d say he was doing around 80 mph. I watched him sideswipe a lengthy rock wall supporting an overpass. That sent him careening across the highway toward the center lane and my H. At first, I thought that he was going to just miss hitting him. My H told me he heard something roaring behind him and instinctively tried to speed up. Unfortunately, the other driver hit H’s car on the rear driver’s side. The impact sent the two cars travelling parallel to each other and into the rock wall. Both cars rebounded off the rock wall and back toward the center of the road. It was like watching a horrific game of pinball. The other driver’s car was fishtailing all over the road and hit H’s car a second time. That hit sent H’s car travelling perpendicular to the highway and into a concrete barrier on the right side of the road. The other driver’s car came to a halt in the middle of the road facing the wrong way. Total: 2 strikes by other car, 1 impact head-on into rock wall, 1 impact head-on into concrete barrier. I honestly thought at the time that I was watching H’s death.</p>
<p>Miraculously, no one in the other driver’s car was injured. He had two passengers with him. I never found out what on earth he was doing at the time he lost control of his car. Texting?? No drugs or alcohol were involved.</p>
<p>H ended up with a torn rotator cuff and a shredded labrum in his right shoulder plus a back injury. We had a fun night in “big city” ER. We waited 11 hours for H to be seen by a doctor. The only thing he had for pain during all that time was an ice pack! The total food we had that night was a shared package of peanuts. We didn’t have any change for more snacks from the ER vending machines. The cafeteria was closed until we were finally ready to leave at 6:30 a.m… H is a diabetic, so that wasn’t exactly a good situation! We joked with the resident who finally examined him that we could have literally driven back home in the time that we waited in the ER. (We were exactly 11 hours into our trip when the accident occured.) Moral, never go to a downtown big city ER on a Friday night! </p>
<p>H had surgery for the shoulder injuries after we returned home. H considered his shoulder injury to be more pressing than his back injury. He lived with back pain from spinal stenosis for many years before having surgery 3 years ago. The accident caused swelling and irritation in the nerves in H’s back bringing back the pain his surgery had alleviated. His surgeon decided to try PT, which only helped a little. In late May of this year the problem worsened. H now has extreme weakness in his right leg and has actually fallen several times. He can’t use his right leg to go up stairs at all. Walking is painful. He’s using a cane for support. New tests have determined that he has a ruptured disc and needs surgery. The surgeon has told him that recovery will be much more difficult than the recovery from his surgery 3 years ago. He’s told him that it may take up to a year before he’ll be functioning as well as before the accident. So, even though we are settling with our insurance company, the physical consequences of the accident aren’t really over.</p>
<p>H and I will be consulting a financial professional about what to do with the settlement money, but of course, the final decision will be up to us. Naturally, we realize that the smartest financial decision would be to invest all of the settlement money and continue to save as much money as possible. But, we are fairly sure that we are going to put an addition onto the house. We would not be doing the remodel as a way to deal with the settlement money. LOL! Our current tiny home is completely paid for, but we have no room to host the big family get-togethers that our relatives enjoy. We believe that we can afford to build the addition we’ve always wanted and still have enough to comfortably retire if our investments return a modest 7%. We’ve been fortunate to have earned nearly 18% on our investments in the past 14 months and have managed to accrue about $150,000. That’s in addition to H’s pension. My reading tells me that a 7% return is a reasonable expectation for our mutual funds and that we really should need less than 100% of our current income, adjusted for 3% inflation per year. I have figured that H’s pension plus our investments should give us a retirement income equal to 100% of what we currently live on. </p>
<p>Notrichenough and Happymomof1, I will check with a professional on the rules for spousal IRAs. I did a lot of research when I set up my SIMPLE and my understanding was that if the non-working spouse was drawing any type of retirement benefit, money could not be placed in an IRA for him or her. (My husband retired from teaching 10 years ago because of a chronic medical condition. He draws a pension.)</p>