Help Me Pick an Essay Prompt (2 choices)

I’m still trying to settle on a common app essay prompt for GA Tech. I’m scared that both are a bit cliche, so I would love some feedback.

One option is to write about my refugee parents (cliche already, I know). I would talk about how my parents survived the genocide in Bosnia and came to America as refugees. My dad had already finished his law degree, and my mom was almost done with her medical degree when they both came here and lost all of their hard work. I’ve been working as hard as possible in my school and in my life just to do them proud and to show them they didn’t come here just to survive. I would also talk about how I’m trying to be successful in life in order to make it up to my parents about how they lost both of their degrees when they came here. This topic means a lot to me, but it also means a lot to the millions of other children of immigrants that would write about the same thing.

My other choice would be about failure and how I overcame it. I’ve been completely and utterly devoted to my student council for my whole high school career. I’ve invested hundreds of hours into it, gone to tons of conferences and rallys, and have just poured my life into it in general. My council even hosted a huge student council conference for every student council in the southeast, and I was heavily involved in the planning and completion of the conference. I have also held two executive board positions before this year on my council. This all being said, I thought that I would be a shoe in when I ran for student council/student body president (they’re the same thing in my school) earlier this year. I thought everyone would appreciate all of the hard work that I had put in, and didn’t worry about what I thought would be my definite election. Unfortunately, someone else (who had only done 1/4 of what I had done for the council) ended up being elected. Needless to say, I was completely devastated. I was probably devastated for a good week before I accepted the situation. I had doubted if I should even stay on my council (I was still given a position on the exec board), since I thought I obviously wasn’t appreciated. I eventually decided that I wasn’t strong enough to quit, so I stayed on. I accepted the situation and was eventually happy with my situation. A few months later, the president approached me and told me that she was quitting and that I would finally be president. That was another hard decision: I didn’t know if I should hold onto my pride and decline or suck it up and accept what I had wanted for forever. I did accept the position, and picked up the pieces of what was left of my council. This seems sorta cliche, too (I don’t know if I’m just doubting myself, though).

Any ideas which I should pick? Any feedback on either of these topics? (Sorry if there’s something messed up, I’m typing this on my phone.)

I wouldn’t do the second choice. The first would be ok IF you can make it more about you than your parents.

I dislike both topics.
Can you think of anything special about yourself? Sometimes small things can turn into great essays.

I think you’re trying too hard to come up with some BIG, GRAND topic.

The point behind the essay is to give the reader a sense of who you are, to leave them confident that you would do well in their school-- to give them a reason to say yes.

Don’t overthink this. Write an essay about yourself that addresses one of the prompts. The best ones I’ve read have taken some tiny little slice of everyday life and used that to address the prompt.

Thank you guys for your feedback. I’ve been thinking about some more personal things about myself to write about. I could work with how I loved Lego bricks as a kid and was afraid to share that fact with other people once I reached high school. Other possible things could be how my fashion sense changed throughout the years as my personality changed (in middle school, I didn’t care about what people thought about me and wore whatever I wanted. Once I reached high school, I was really insecure and started dressing like what every other guy dressed like in order to fit in and be liked. Finally in junior and senior year, I made some best friends and went back to not caring about other people and started dressing for myself.) Lastly, I could work my yoga hobby in somehow, but I’m not sure what I could use that with.

You seem to keep coming back to fearing what others would think-- with Legos, with wardrobe.

Remember, you want to give them a reason to say yes.

Tell me about some small success.