<p>the school we have in mind is driveable, although not that close and if he wanted to come home for a weekend he could. We were suppose to go to see the campus for the welcome weekend but son has 103 fever, so that was a no go. We then discussed how he would handle being sick at school. It is scary for someone who might not have a large social network.
I do have friends who kids are at the school who could keep an eye on him.
so as far as I can tell, the school has a great disability office, alot of clubs where he could meet like minded students, is a driveable distance, great departments in his interests, and most importantly he wants to go there!</p>