<p>If you want to wear sweatpants, then Kenyon is not the school for you. F&M probably is not a good fit either.</p>
<p>Early decision is hard to get out of. That is the whole point of ED. It is precisely for “dream” schools. You and your parents made a mistake going ED at F&M. Sorry.</p>
<p>My advise is to try to get admitted to a school that you do like. Hopefully one that is cheaper than F&M, so that the money you lose to F&M (by breaking the ED) will be compensated for. Do you live in a state with an outstanding state university? Virginia has the College of William and Mary, for example. You can get out of this, but it will take a major effort.</p>