Helping parents help their MT kids

We’re parents of a high school senior who is serious about pursuing a professional career in musical theater, but she does NOT want to pursue a BFA.

We’re trying to connect with parents whose children are currently 18–22 and pursuing musical theater professionally through a BA program, a traditional college with a theater/music program, or an alternative training route.

We’d particularly love to hear from families whose students took a gap year after high school to pursue the craft and whose students are navigating the transition from traditional college into professional auditions, regional theater, tours, representation, and eventually NYC.

What paths have worked? What would you do differently? Are there colleges or training programs that have provided particularly good opportunities for students who don’t pursue a BFA?

We’re looking for honest, real-world experiences, including the challenges and the successes . Thanks!