@ShatteredEyes I’m almost a tad envious of people who realized that they weren’t straight or cis at a young age. I was kind of internally (not vocally, and I’m glad because I would hate my past self) homophobic until the summer after seventh grade, when I met my camp friend’s two moms. I identified as straight until the summer after eighth grade, when a bi friend at the same camp explained most of the sexualities and gender orientations. I identified as questioning from the second that discussion was over (I had found one of my sister’s friends cute near the end of eighth grade, but dismissed it as a girl crush) and came out as “probably bisexual” to one of my best friends. Then, I joined my school’s GSA, and discovered an ace person. I learned more about the orientation and, after much thought, decided that I was asexual and biromantic. However, the biromantic part is kind of in flux; guys are okay, but girls are great. Watch as I come out as biromantic and then discover I’m only attracted to girls ;). As I look back, I realize that in my early adolescence, I would think enforcedly heteronormative thoughts, like “some GUY will like this face someday” or “someday a GUY will share the same hobbies.”
@neophite I have friends in the same situation, but I have no idea what to do.
@neophite ^i don’t really know what to say either. I suggest excercising to relieve stress and frustration and taking up more extra curriculars to get out of the house
Tbh I didn’t know there was a “gay” or a “straight” until like 6th grade. I’ve always liked boys though,I remember having a crush on Joe Jonas when I was younger :)). Of course girls are absolutely gorgeous, and when I see an outstandingly pretty girl I think “I want to be like her” than “I want to be with her”. I can never imagine myself being with a girl because I’m not attracted to girls like that. When I see a really hot guy though, I’m like “be my boyfriend pls”
Sexuality be, like, sooo weird. I’ll be the last person to hate on anyone for anything, though.
Personally, I don’t think I prioritize romance/sex-things enough to worry so much over it. One day I’ll end up confronting it, but it should just… shoo, shoo, away right now.
My current real problem is not saying anything inadvertently offensive to any awesome people. I got a course lecture from a peer the other day, because of an offhand comment on Niki Minaj.
On another note, is anybody here applying to PROMYS for Summer 2016, or something like it?
My friend won’t shut up about how “hot” a movie star is. I don’t really see it, I just think she’s really, really cute. That’s just how it is for me ^#(^
I’m obsessed with Adriana Lima because she’s a f***in goddess and Candice Swanepoel because her body is to die for. I would literally kill someone to look like that. And Kendall Jenner. And Gigi Hadid. Actually I’m obsessed with all models because they’re so tall and perfect and it just makes me go uggghhh
I an slightly shorter than average and my face looks somewhat acceptable from some angles. My best feature is easily my hair. I don’t really want to be tall; it makes me feel awkward to be taller than people. I’m kinda eh about my appearance tbh.
My current obsession is Miss Universe Pia Alonzo Wurtzbach. Watching her interviews makes me wonder, how is it possible to be so gorgeous and intelligent at the same time? Her body at the Miss Universe swimsuit finals was off the charts :x
@awesomepolyglot I know she won the genetic powerball. But anyway I’m shorter than average and my face is decent. I guess it’s better than being unbearable to look at
Just sitting here like 0.0 hmmm don’t get unrealistic expectations, it will do more damage than good
I have a body goal’s, not crushes. I never want to be someone else, that to me is silly. Eh, you guys still seem, how can I put it… Young? Innocent? Eh, wait until you get into a relationship, like a real one. Not the, “Oh, I have a girlfriend/boyfriend/other now, time for me to do yadda yadda yadda.” The type where you guys have your parents negotiating with each other because you two are at war every week. The expectations of people will go down, that is why I steer clear of “Body crushes” and “People crushes” just set non realistic expectations. @adiacs Not to be rude but accept yo self. It took me a while, and I do not want you to go through that. I was that flat chested, ugly, no style having, giraffe looking (as in tall), nerd in Elementary and part of Middle School. Eh, can’t tell me nuthin’ now DX I was bullied because of being so skinny, but hey, 3 years put meat on my bones, and confidence in my head. @adiacs To sum it up, step out of the norm, please do, you will love it. hehehe. Love being short, short girls are so adorable like awwww hint hintnudge nudge XDD Oh, and pro tip, do not do the makeup thing. You will fall in love with a face that is not yours, and will never be yours
Sorry for the long post, I just like posting now and then, but not little posts. OVO Night owl club
