You have a couple of Jesuit schools on your list, one of which is at a significant discount in the ultimate urban area (NYC). I’d visit Fordham and HC. Wooster is a small nice community, but not sure I would qualify it as urban. But perhaps that style of educational setting would resonate with you vs the City that Never Sleeps.
But your ADHD suggests you might want want to contact yoru top schools’ disability office to see if you can get a sense how supportive/accomodative they are