<p>Mine started in my early 40s, periods got sparse then, too, and they tapered off in my late 50s. 61 now & still get one once in a blue moon. That sounds like a long time but the worst period was only for about a year or year & a half. </p>
<p>I found best thing to do for night was stick my feet our from under the blanket–!–yes–! – and also flip the blanket down from my neck & chest as soon as I felt one beginning. That cut it down a lot.</p>
<p>Also-- we keep the house cool in winter already; I used to wear wool sweaters all the time. Well, the year the HFs started up I switched to cardigans and zip-front sweatshirts. I could zip or button them more or less closed as needed. And I really did not need wool in winter for a couple years, except for socks. I <em>always</em> wear wool knee socks from Oct-Apr. The knee socks are not making you get HFs anyway. </p>
<p>I also wear all-cotton shirts–always have–tees & turtles. So I did not have a problem with synthetics making me feel too hot. Give cotton a try. </p>
<p>{My mother was ten years older than my MIL–my mother used to wear orlon turtlencks with short zippers in the back. When she got HFs, she would unzip the zipper & walk around like that.</p>
<p>Well, ten years later my MIL was walking around with an unzipped orlon turtleneck on, and I laughed! “I know what you are doing!!”}</p>
<p>My poor husband had to endure me turning the heat in the car off or way down-- I just could not take it. </p>
<p>On the bright side, your heat bill in the house will go way down, and your family will get in the habit of putting on sweaters! Haha</p>
<p>I did not go for HRT because I am a DES daughter & I had already been a guinea pig for hormones once. I do not go for soy anything because it mimics estrogen – why it helps you with the flashes – and exposure to more estrogen for more years than Nature intended is what gets you in trouble with breast cancer. Ask nuns; they consider BC to be an occupational disease. </p>
<p>Try to relax—it is just a passing thing and you will not be supporting Kotex any more! Best part of the whole thing–no more tampons, no more pads…Yay!</p>