<p>I can’t help my child and he’ll complete school with a $100k loan burden.</p>
<p>Do not allow your son to borrow that much…not even HALF that much. Also, for him to borrow more than the following amounts would mean that YOU would have to co-sign and ultimately have to pay if he could not. </p>
<p>5500 frosh
6500 soph
7500 jr
7500 sr</p>
<p>Those amounts are really the most an undergrad should borrow because a newish grad can’t pay more than that back. Borrowing more is a bad idea.</p>
<p>Anyway…since you now know that you have an unaffordable EFC, you need to be looking for other options…</p>
<p>1) publics that he could commute to - CSU/UCs that are near your home. </p>
<p>2) publics and privates that your son could get a large merit scholarship at. It’s important that your son get high SAT and/or ACT scores (have him take both). Along with a high GPA, your son could get big merit somewhere (probably not to a UC, but to privates or OOS publics).</p>
<p>3) If your son does well on the PSAT (in Calif, a high score is needed, so if he can get a 223, he’d likely be safe), then he could get a free ride to a few schools.</p>
<p>4) Since your son is only a junior, you have some time to work on the above issues and also to determine if there are areas in your home life that you can cut back costs to set aside some money for college. Or, perhaps your son can take a part-time job now or in the summer to earn/save some money. Even with big scholarships, you may still have to come up with some money each year.</p>
<p>5) Private scholarships are often small, hard to get, and only for freshman year…so not much help for soph, jr, or sr year. So, look for COLLEGES that give merit scholarships…those scholarships are usually for all 4 years.</p>
<p>Since you made the comment about difficulty in paying prop taxes, that suggests that you would have a hard time contributing much for college. Try to figure out how much you can contribute and be very honest with your son so that he doesn’t get unrealistic expectations…and so that he knows what he has to do to be able to “go away” to school. </p>
<p>Schools believe that the primary people to pay for college is the family. Going away to school is a luxury, so if that’s the goal, hopefully your son can get some very large merit scholarships.</p>
<p>berkeley is right across the bay. By the time my son goes tuition will be $14k a year, and he’ll have to BART it from home with zero college experience.</p>
<p>Just because a student commutes, it doesn’t mean that he’ll have zero college experience. A commuting student who wants to be involved on campus should NOT just attend classes and then straight home. A commuting student can join clubs, study on campus, do homework on campus, eat on campus, etc…and just come home at night to sleep. </p>
<p>Again, “going away” is a luxury…for a UC, that can be $15k right there for room and board. For most families, paying that is out of the question after paying for tuition and books.</p>